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Survey #10

February 17, 2016 by Mellie Dee Leave a Comment

Pre-filled in survey. Haven’t done one in a while. Hope you all have a happy hump day! 🙂

The last time you kissed someone, what color of shirt were they wearing? Maroon.

What are your plans for tomorrow? Work, meeting baby Danica, dinner with Mallory.

Have you had sex yet? Nope.

What kind of booze did you last take shots of? Fireball.

What are you wearing currently? Tee shirt and undies.

What color of hair do you find the sexiest on the opposite gender? Dark.

Have you slept over at a member of the opposite sex’s house in their bed? Yes.

Who last slept in your bed besides you? Rizzo.

Is your spring break shorter this year? I don’t get one anymore.

What time did you wake up today? I usually wake up by 4 am or 5 am depending on what time I go to work.

If the last person you had sex with asked you to date them, would you? Ain’t gonna give it up to a rando.

How long until your next birthday? Eighty six days (I looked that up).

What color is your car? (Or the one you drive most often) Black Knight.

What celebrity did your most current ex resemble? Uh ... I don’t know.

What’s your favorite kind of cereal? I don’t know. I don’t really eat cereal.

What’s something you want to purchase next time you’re at the mall? I don’t know. I don’t really go to malls.

What was the last movie you watched? Deadpool! Duh …

Has someone of the opposite sex ever told you that you were sexy? Yes …

If you could see any musician live, front row, who would you choose? Ron ... in 25 days!

Do you think your best friend’s significant other is attractive? Nope. None are my type..

Do you own any books written by musicians? Not that I know of.

What city is the person you wish you were with in right now? Houston.

Be honest, who texted you last?  Boy Morgan.

Who did you talk on the phone with last? Sammy.

Do you sleep with the door open or closed? Closed. 

Did anyone see your last kiss? I don’t think so.. 

Do you drink tea? Always. 

Have you ever kissed someone older than you? Yes.

What’s worse: dry skin or chapped lips? Chapped lips. 

Would you be surprised if your parents had another baby together? Yes.

Would you rather go to Canada or California on vacation?  Canada. 

Do you want to get married? One day … I don’t really think about it.

Are you wearing jeans, shorts, sweatpants or pajama pants? None of the above. Undies.

Last person you told a secret to?  Sammy.

What are you listening to at the moment? Grey’s Anatomy. 

Where was the last place you fell asleep other than your bed? Probably couch a few days ago. 

Is there someone that you believe you will always be attached to? Always. 

Are relationships ever really worth it? I think so.

Do you believe in love?  Yes. 

When was the last time you saw your father? This evening.

Have any memories that you’d like to forget? Yes, but it’s made me who I am. Could be a good thing … or bad.

Is there someone you really like to hang out with and just talk about stuff? Yes.

Have you ever been called prince or princess? Yes.

Do you think teenagers can be in love? No.

How fast does your mood change? Pretty fast. 

Do you have any condoms in your room? No.

Do you need to say anything to someone? No, but I want to. 

Remember the first time you kissed the last person you kissed? Yes. 

How are you feeling? Tired. 

Do you want someone to call you right now? Always, even if I don’t like talking on phones.

What do you always take with you? Phone, I guess.

Is your bed comfortable? Yes.

Would you say you’re an understanding person? People say I am. 

Are you generally a happy person? Yes. 

Were you single on Valentines Day? Always.

How long does it take you to fall asleep at night? Forever and a lifetime. 

Are you talkative? I can be depending on the person and situation. But usually, I don’t like to. 

Next vacation you’re going on? Not sure. Hoping Costa Rica or Florida or ...

Filed Under: Personal Tagged With: About Me, Surveys

Quote | Stop Being A People-Pleaser

February 9, 2016 by Mellie Dee Leave a Comment

Make Sure You're Not Saying No To Yourself | Paolo Coehlo

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Many people call me a people-pleaser. I use to see that as a compliment because it meant I made people happy but as I grow older, I realize it’s the opposite.

I’m taken granted most of the time and even when I feel I can’t give anymore, I push myself to because I’ll feel guilty saying “no” – and they know I can’t say “no”. I’ll stand by someone who constantly hurts me because if I see that they’re happy, what’s a little pain?

I’ve always given my all never expecting anything in return, materialistic or treating others the way I’d want to be treated. But I realized I’m subconsciously wanting to take by hoping they like me back as a person. I’m trying to compensate for having the feeling of not being good enough for anyone.

Being Taken For Granted Quote

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But I am good enough. Not to sound cocky, but I believe I’m a pretty great friend and if I was in a relationship with someone, I know I’m a damn good girlfriend.

I look around and see people who only care about their own feelings and don’t give a crap about anything else. I’m filled with envy that they’re able to do so and are still surrounded by people along with a significant other. They don’t feel guilty about it so why should I?

I understand not everyone will like me just as I won’t like everyone I meet and have to put boundaries on people who constantly hurt me or take me for granted. I understand I don’t always have to explain myself if the answer is “no” and I sure can’t back down due to feeling guilty. I understand I have to put myself first for a happier me but taking the first step is always the hardest.

Filed Under: Personal, Quotes

Stranger Danger

January 29, 2016 by Mellie Dee Leave a Comment

Currently at a coffee shop working. Because where else would I be on a Friday afternoon … single life.

Except there’s a man, a couple tables away, facing me, staring at me, constantly. I can feel his eyes burning a hole at the top of my head as I look down and pound away at the keys. Anxiety starting to surface.

Someone, please, anyone. Sit down in front of his line of vision so he can’t see me anymore. But no one hears my silent request as they sit anywhere but his line of vision. Why does he think it’s okay? Why is he trying to break my bubble?

He’s getting up, my anxiety builds as he’s coming closer … f*ck. He sits down. Small talk. I hate small talk. Awkward laughter. My shifty eyes pleading for someone, anyone, to help. Nothing.

Anxiety to a boil as I politely decline his date proposal. He hands me his phone number “in case I change my mind” and walks back to where he was sitting. He continues on with his life, occasionally looking up at me as I sit there trying to be as normal as I can. I couldn’t take it anymore. I packed my things and bolted out the door.

Fresh, clean air.

Freedom.

Just my every encounter with any man that comes up to me in public. I can’t do it. It freaks me out. Especially when I’m all alone, with no barriers to help me run away. I can’t handle this shiet. This could be why I’m single for life. Maybe one day I’ll be normal and actually say yes … ha who am I kidding.

Have a great weekend, kiddies! Enjoy your last few days of January!

Filed Under: Personal Tagged With: Humor

20 Things I Learned in 2015

January 2, 2016 by Mellie Dee Leave a Comment

or continue to remember in 2015 …

  1. It’s never too late to do the things you missed out on the first time around.
  2. Accept people for who they are, and if you can’t, then perhaps change your perspective. No one is boring.
  3. If you’re still angry, it’s too soon to talk.
  4. Life is too short. Say you’re sorry, say how you feel, show your love before it’s too late.
  5. There is always room for improvement.
  6. People will always tell you their opinion; what matters is what you do with it.
  7. Relationships will fail and it will hurt but you will learn from it.
  8. Not everyone deserves a second chance.
  9. No one is your competition. Cheering others on is way more fun than tearing them down.
  10. It’s okay to put yourself first.
  11. You can’t force friendships. If one is meant to be, no distance or time apart changes anything.
  12. Your parents are people too. As you get older, they too are getting older.
  13. Breaking up with negative friends is hard but ultimately freeing. Only surround yourself with people who allow you to be you and help you grow to be a better version of yourself.
  14. Take chances and if it goes wrong, at least you know you tried.
  15. De-stress, relax, and unplug.
  16. Traveling is always worth it but if a flight is super duper cheap, it’s up to no good. I’m looking at you, Spirit Airlines.
  17. Collect memories, not things.
  18. Giving without expectation will always uplift your mood as well as others.
  19. It’s okay to not have plans during the weekends. Take time to relax and enjoy doing what you love instead.
  20. You’re lucky to be alive and to have all that you have.

Filed Under: Personal

Gravitating Back

December 20, 2015 by Mellie Dee Leave a Comment

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It may be stressful to always have doors open for others, but talking to past friendships/relationships usually shows us how much we’ve grown and we learn from it. I’ve come to realize that the ones reaching out usually tends to be the ones that need help the most. They’re just afraid to ask. I’ve been told I’ve been missed and I’ve been asked for second chances among many other things. But the greatest ones of all are handwritten letters, texts, and phone calls like the one from Thursday being told I’ve changed their lives for the better without even knowing it. For most of them, a future was just a distant dream, but they got the help they needed and seeing them all on successful paths makes my heart hurt in a good way.

Sometimes our bond is closer the second time around and we actually stay in each others’ lives. But sometimes, we fall back apart and that’s okay too. Periodic check ups show we were meant to be in each others’ lives again – even if for a split second. As long as I know they’re okay, that’s all that matters. And as long as I know they’re happy, I’m happy. I cherish these people a lot because it’s always hard to initiate first contact after being apart for so long. Sometimes I’ve reached out, but sometimes it was others. It is a little awkward at first, but we get past that because when two people really care about one another, they will always look for ways to make it work, no matter how hard it is.

If you constantly reach out and you don’t get a response, learn to walk away. It doesn’t mean that you’ve give up on the friendship/relationship or that they mean nothing to you anymore. It doesn’t mean that you’ve closed the door or that you’ve stopped caring. It just means you’re tired of not being important enough. And no one should ever make you feel that way. Someone who wants you in their lives will make an effort to do so. If they don’t want to work to keep you in their lives, it won’t change, no matter what you do. Maybe they’re going through things you know nothing about and the time just isn’t right for them to gravitate back to you. Or maybe they’re not meant to be in your lives anymore. But when the time is right, you’ll feel the pull again and you or the other will reach out. If they’re meant to be in your life, they’ll come back around. If they care enough, they’ll find a way to make it work. No matter what. And when they do, don’t shut them out because they did.

Always remember that your behavior decides who stays in your life.
People can only reach out so many times.
So make an effort if you’re ever willing to stay in theirs,
Because no one can read your mind.

Filed Under: Personal

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