Tony and I were leaving work yesterday as Natalie and Erin walked us to the door talking about how Tony always had to be right and always starts arguments because he wants to win. And somehow it went to how I’m waiting for marriage.
After an hour later, 2 out of 3 believe I should just give it up and find some kind of site to just get it over with. After listening to them, it’s making me wonder if that is why my past relationships never worked out. They made it seem as, if you’re not giving it up, you can’t have a relationship and if I was able to have a relationship, he’s probably cheating. That after the 4th date, if I don’t put out, they’re just going to leave.
I tell guys I’m waiting for marriage because I don’t want to lead them on if that’s what they’re looking for. I know I can find someone to just get it over with but I want it to mean something. And I know people will tell me I’m stupid for thinking that. I’m not the one night stand type girl and I never will be. I’d like to believe there are still good guys who will respect my decisions and is willing to wait until I’m ready.
In the back of my mind, I know there’s a possibility, when the time is right to me, married or not, it’ll just happen. So until then, I’m not going to “just give it up”.
Never let the influences of the modern world affect your morals or who you are.
This made me laugh a little too loudly. It’s a pretty famous painting and someone went and put those words on it. haha
Happy Friday!
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