Friendships

I don’t like to open up in detail. Sad things are rarely shared because I feel like a burden. If too many people know about the happy things, it usually turns to shit. When I do find those I am able to share every detail with, I hold them very dear to me. But without fail, majority of the time, jealousy comes into play and well … shit.

If it’s with a girl, her great gal pals think that she’s been replaced as “best friend”. If it’s with a guy with a girlfriend, she’ll think we’re cheating or I’m trying to steal her man. If this guy dated this girl and I’m still friends with both of them, I have to pick a side.

Why can’t we all just get along? Why can’t everyone just be friends? I mean, I get it. Jealousy and shit. I get jealous too, don’t get me wrong. But where’s the trust? Unless that person has done something to make you question your position in their life, without trust, there is no ship. It angers me that some ships have ended because of this. Why does that have to be the endgame?

It’s made me afraid to open up – not knowing when that person is leaving. I know people always leave. It’s inevitable. It’s taken me a long time to get to where I am now and I know that if I end up losing someone close to me again, it’ll undo everything. And with everything going on around me, I’m not sure if I can handle it.

Just some thoughts. Hope you all had a swell weekend. I sure did because I have some great ships in my life.